The other kind of patience is when you're WAITING. WAITING is really hard a lot of the time, but it can be really fun. I remember deeply, philosophically pondering WAITING when I was in high school and I wanted to go to a dance. I had my dress and I was imagining who I'd dance with, and how I'd fix my hair for nearly two weeks before the actual event. Some of the things I noticed follow:
- While you're waiting, time moves very slowly.
- When the waiting is over, it feels as though time went very quickly.
- Waiting for something to happen (especially something good, or something exciting) makes one feel purposeful
- The concept of the something which is to happen being over can be very depressing, because you have nothing to look forward to.
- There will always be something more to wait for, after what's coming up is over.
A very good way to make it through when you have to wait is to just go one day at a time. That came from These Happy Golden Years by Laura Ingalls Wilder. "I have only to get through one day at a time." Just like that. There's not much else anyone can do.
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